French culture and dating
Her "no" could actually means "convince me" or "maybe." Should he not text and call her in pursuit, she knows he has changed his mind.
He will, however, call and text you regularly after he considers you his partner.
While we grow up thinking about love in black and white, they grow up inscrutably grey.
As post 50s swell the ranks of the online dating market looking for love, this French flower metaphor takes on new luster that merits reflection.
Everyone has romantic notions about dating in Paris. In movies, books, magazine articles, on Pinterest boards, blogs and Instagrams throughout the world, people tend to see the city through a very rosy, amourous lens.
Culturally speaking, the French do have a certain preoccupation with love and romance.
When they spend time alone together, the girl and the boy don’t go out for dinner, they just go for a walk or chill at home, which is really different from the formal dating process I see in American movies. We don’t ask people out, especially if we don’t know them well.
What’s more is that the French place very little importance on Valentine’s Day, which just passed a few days ago.This is how the French are groomed to think about love from an early age: not in the absolutes of total love or utter rejection, but in nuances and a range of possibilities.It dawned on me at that moment that while we Americans are groomed to seek happy endings and closure, the French are more comfortable with emotional subtleties and ambiguity.My first reaction was to laugh at him because it seemed so absurd that someone (let alone a cashier my age with whom I had only spoken three words) was asking me on a date.You will never, in France, find a guy you don’t know show any romantic interest in you if you have not been introduced by a mutual friend.